Building a healthy relationship with yourself and with others


As 2016 starts to wind down, some of you vowed to find love this year, but it hasn’t happened yet.  As you are on your journey to finding love or allowing love to find you, keep in mind that there are some things you can control and some things you can’t.  One of the things you can’t control is timing.  Timing and circumstances play a major role in your love life.  You may be telling yourself that you’ve met the right one, but it was the wrong time.

I believe that there are several people in life with whom we could successfully and happily spend and enjoy life with, but the one we ultimately end up being with comes down to timing. You can have chemistry with someone. The two of you can have similar life goals, values, morals etc., but timing is the essential part of the equation.

At the end of the day, meeting someone great is rare. It’s not something that you can just walk away from.  Many have asked the question, “Why do we sometimes meet someone great when the timing isn’t great?” Perhaps it’s a test, a test to measure our faith and patience, to see if we can stand the test of time, until the time becomes “right”. We can wish for the right time, a different time, but the bottom line is this, with bad timing, you must have a little faith and a little patience. It doesn’t mean that two people aren’t meant for each other, it just means they must wait for that right moment. Sometimes it’s not that two people aren’t right for each other. It’s more like the timing wasn’t right.

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